Who have you Found?

Life is the process of finding LOVE; every person will need to find 
four people in their life. First person is yourself, Second person 
is the one you love most, Third person is the one who love you most, 
And the fourth, is the one you spend the rest of your life with. 

In life, firstly you will meet with the one you love most, and learn how love feels. Because you know how love feels, so you can find the person who loves you most. When you have experienced the feeling of loving others and being loved, you will then know what it is you need most. Then you will find the person who is most suitable for you, to be able to spend the rest of your life with. Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person. The one you love most doesn’t love you. The one who love you most is never the one you love most. And the one you spend your life with is never the one you love most or the one who love you most. He is just the person who happens to be at the right place at the right time. Which person are you in other people life? No person will purposely have a change of heart. At the point in time when he loves you, he really loves you. But when he doesn’t love you anymore, he really doesn’t love you anymore. When he loves you, he can pretend that he doesn’t. Same goes, when he loves you no more, there’s no way he can pretend he loves you. When a person doesn’t love you and wants to leave you. You must ask yourself if you still love him, If you also don’t love him anymore, don’t ever not let him leave just to save your pride. If you still love him, you should wish him happiness, and hope that he will be with the one he loves most, not stop him from it. If you stop him from finding true happiness with the one he loves, it shows you already don’t love him, And if you don’t love him, what rights do you have to blame him for a change of heart? Love is not possessive. If you like the moon, you can just take it down and put it in your basin. But the moonlight still shines upon you. In other words, when you love a person, you can use another method of possessing the person. Let him become a permanent memory in you life. If you really love a person, you must love him for what he is. Love him for his good points and the bad. You can wish for him to become like what you like him to be just because you love him. If he can change to become what you like him to be, you don’t love him anymore. When you really love a person, you cannot find reason why you love him. You only know that no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have this person be with you. Real love is when two people can go through the toughest problems without asking for promises or listing criteria. In a relationship, you have to put in effort and give in at times, not always be on the receiving end. Being away from each other is a type of test. If the relationship isn’t strong, then you can only admit defeat. Real love will never become hate. When two people are in love they love to ask each other to swear, to make promises. Why do they ask each other to swear and promise? Because they don’t trust each other, they don’t trust their lover. This swears and promises are useless. Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry, my love for you will never change! We all know that the sky will never fall, the ocean will never dry. Even if it does happen, are we still alive by then? Be careful when making promises, don’t make promises that you cannot keep. Swear by things that can never happen, because it can never happen, so no harm just saying it casually. Remember, Swearing by things that can never happen are the most touching! In a relationship, what you say is one thing, but what you do is another; the one saying doesn’t believe; the one listening, also doesn’t believe. So who have you found?

Hopeless…

 

 

I have been quite busy nowadays… Well, it’s the end of the month, which means I need to make reports and do some analysis with my work.

Anyway, I didn’t write for what had happen with my work but with what I had just ponder on this text message. It says “It’s never easy to let the one you love go just because you’ve found someone you think is better, till you realized, as you hold your new love’s hand, it’s still the touch of past fingers that fits yours…” This message sounds so hopelessly in love from someone in his past or that maybe from a break-up that didn’t quite go well. Does this message wanted to let that someone know that he’s still in love and that he couldn’t get a grip of what had happen? Maybe so or maybe he just wanted to send a message that she would regret the decision she made when she broke up with him. Where would you like to sympathize? To the girl who was brave enough to let him go because she’d think in the future their relationship wouldn’t work out no matter how hard they try or to the boy who believe in their love that they could go through it no matter what? They both seem so hopeless. The girl stopped loving because she was hopeless that their relationship could have worked out and the boy was desperate of a love that never could be strong as what they had before.

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Confused?!?

In the past few days, someone had called for an interview. I had no idea that they would still be interested in my application. Anyway, I did make an appointment with them. I went to their office and was told to fill an application for employment. It took me half an hour to answer all the forms. After that, I had an interview with the HR. She asked a lot of questions with my work both present and the previous work and if I had relatives working there. I guessed that went along well because she told me to meet the Department head by tomorrow for an interview. I went there all by myself not knowing what would the outcome be. I did emphasize that I’m not confident with my programming skills. I had to reiterate that phrase so that they would know that I’m not equipped for that position for now but he did console me that I will be trained and there are series of trainings before they put me to work. It made me think twice that I think this would be an opportunity for me to enhance my skills in programming and that this would be a challenge. Moreover, they have informed today that I will take an exam tomorrow. If I passed the exam tomorrow I get the job. I still haven’t decided yet but come what may tomorrow. I’m just hoping that whatever decisions I’d make I hope I won’t regret it.

Memoirs of Cyber and Capuccino

This place has been my working place for about two months and 16days (that long eh?). I am going to miss going to this direction and in some ways the people around this café especially the attendant/s and their customers along with their funny gestures and PDA stuff (:))).

Would the place we are transferring to have a lot to offer? ( :-? ). I can’t figure out what would the real office would look like. I did imagine it however I don’t want to go into details I might disappoint myself if it’s not what I expected. But I bet it’s much better than this. I really hate the air-conditioned here. If it’s not too cold, it’s too hot. Deal or no deal? ( :) )). I hope I wouldn’t be too near or is in the direction of the air condition when we transfer.

This place has a few stories but it’s for my ears only…. (:P) till here…. I still have to back up some of my files.

Happy Birthday Michelle!

 

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